Friday, August 26, 2011

Men V/S Women !!!

The Most Interesting Topic Ever...!!!

Every Men thinks what actually women want and feel about them & similarly, women thinks about man.

Some common words a  Women imagine about her man: Attractive, Honest, Decent, Kind, Good Sense of humor , Warm, Intelligent , Gentlemen, Sincere, Good Mannered, Tall, " Prince Charming" , " Mr. Right".

Some common words a Men imagine about his women: Beautiful, Caring, Honest, Opened Minded, Fun Loving, Good Sense of humor, Affectionate, Sensuous, Sweet, " Dream Girl".

Experts have discovered that there are actually differences in the way women’s and men’s brains are structured and in the way they react to events and stimuli.

Now, lets check out some points to know the actual differences between MEN & WOMEN :


  • They are most emotional creature on this earth.  So, don't ever make fun of her emotions ... you may lose you value for ever in front of her eyes.

  • She wants full attention of people around her & never dare to ignore her , coz her mood swing can trouble you back. 

  • She wants her man to tell her every thing he does through out the day. She won't mind even if man will tell her how many stairs he took to reach office or how many times he had tea , but don't forget to tell her how many times you missed her?(  very very imp)

  • She loves shopping and can spend a whole day searching the stuff which she want , it can also happen that she gets everything home accept the one thing she went to shop for..;)

  • She may be possessive about her things or her man, but that doesn't mean that she will kill the people who touches her thing. She's not that bad .. but yes be careful before touching her things and getting flirty with her man. You can be in real trouble.:)

  • She can trust you blindly , but do not lie to her. Coz the day she'll know the truth... she may not even want to see your face.

  • She loves gossiping and can continue this till her mobile rings and she gives a look to the time ..when she realizes how many hours she has spent in gossiping.

  • Pamper her as much as you can ... it can result lots and lots of love for you and may be so many kisses and hugs...

  • Respect her.. that's most important of all. In case, you want respect in return.

  • If she is career oriented support her , as her career is equally important as your's. 

  • Even if she is independent , she will always show that she is depended on you.. so be there with her ..even if she is big enough to take care of her ...she would appreciate if you do so.

  • She would never ask for surprise gifts ...but that doesn't means that she don't need it...she would love it , if you get her one, may be more. :)

  • Never ask her to keep quit , its something which can be very difficult for her... coz most of them are by default  set to be expressive or some people call it talkative.

  • If she is not fine ... she will say she is fine... but don't just ask her once " What happened?" she might say " She is Fine " .... but she's not. So, keep asking her till she tells you the problem... patiently wait for the reason....i know its difficult ..but that's something she will like you to do.

  •  Comparison... Uhhff... never ever compare her with anyone... she may turn aggressive....women's hate it most when someone compare her with others. She will never change herself , till the time she herself want to do that.

  • Comments : If you want to comment on her dressing, driving, cooking, way of talking , anything.... please be as much polite as possible. 

  • Hygiene is most important for a women...if you have not taken a bath or have not brushed your teeth...please keep a distance from her while talking... she might even burst out saying " Go and get shower and then we will talk" ..;)

  • She is very good with dates , numbers , time... so, if she's asking you " What Date Is Today & What's Special About It" ... answer her quickly, and if don't know the answer except it in a polite way ...rather than pretending that you know.

  • Don't make false promises .. you can receive its punishment through out your she will keep on counting it on her fingers..

  • Increase your listening power.. coz she loves talking about everything ... that can be her pet, her bag, her pen, anything.... and do not dare to pretend that you are listening , if you are not ... she will catch you by asking " tell me what i just said ?" 

  • Compliment her at least once in a day.  And specially if she is taking some efforts for you mention it to her... like if she is writing a love letter ...tell her which line, which word you liked in it. ( remember in detail) 

  • About your past affairs tell her once ...just once... repeating it again and again ...can spoil her mood. And she might also lose her interest on you.

  • Gifts which might impress her are : chocolates , soft toys, cards, show pieces ,perfumes or  take her for shopping for impressing her in better way.

  • Don't count how many girls proposed you in front of her... coz she can always win that game.

  • " Birdwatching" , " Eye Tonic" , " Eye Relaxation" ... whatever you call to the way you watch  other girls ....  don't do that when she's with you.... she might have allowed you to do that...but by that she doesn't mean you rolled your eyes out to watch other girls...she actually knows that its your by default setting , but yet be carefully when she's with you.

  • She is good only with those who are good to her and her loved ones ... but if you hurt her or cheat her or her loved ones ...she can turn other way round.

  • She is more sensitive to sound and smell than men.

  • Mood swing is biggest problem with her.. she can turn emotional, sensitive, aggressive or romantic in seconds... do not argue with her during this phase... if she's saying its DAY...Call it a day & if she says NIGHT ..Call it a night. 

  •  She believes in talking and solving problems... she hates it when some one leaves the topic in between.

  • She might get attracted to a handsome guy... but a gentlemen is what she always looks for.

  • She might be very talkative and expressive , but still sometimes she fails to express what she feels about you. She loves and care her loved ones wholeheartedly. 

  • If she's crying ask her what happened .. and try to make her smile... but do not even pretend that you don't care. She might feel lonely.

  • The secrets shared by her are very important for her.. so keep it with you and never make fun of it in front of might lose her trust forever. 

  • She can handle every up and down of her life ... but she will always look up to you ... to support she'll do everything for you.

  • She might be a mystery for everyone ... but yet she wants her man to know her well.

  • She gets motivated when she feels special and cherished.

  • When she's upset , it is not the time to offer solutions,  thought they may be appropriate at a future time when she is calmed down. As, she wants empathy instead of solutions that time.

  • She values love, relationships, beauty and communication.  

  • Women need to receive caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance.
Still there are so many points to write about women's , but i guess its better to keep some secrets...:) 


  • They are emotional , yet they don't like to show their emotions. Sometimes still they try to show their emotions .. but do not expect that in the way women do in detailed manner. 

  • They are very soft by heart , but will always pretend to be hardcore.

  •  They rarely talk about their problems unless they are seeking "expert" advice; asking for help when you can do something yourself is a sign of weakness for them.

  • In general, men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings.

  • Men always assume women want advice and solutions to problems, that that is the best way to be helpful and to show love.

  • They need individual space... so , please do not ask them ... why they didn't tell you about this and that... they hate it .. as they will not like to report a women like a child.

  • They love you and they do... they won't repeat it number of times .So, don't expect it.

  • They show that they know flirting very well. But, still some of them will try impress you by their decency.

  • For them watching girls ( Birdwatching, Eye Tonic) are part of their daily routine..and it doesn't mean they don't love you ..its just that they have a by default setting.

  • They are bad at remembering dates , time , numbers, don't expect them to remember your first meeting, etc. ( Luckily some are even good with numbers)

  • They don't want women to be jealous ...but even they get jealous ...even if they try not to show it. They will not tolerate other men's closeness with their women.

  • They do not like to listen or talk much ..yet they want to be the first one to know everything..

  • They don't like to talk about past ...whether its their past or your's. If they talk also , they want to know just the conclusion.

  • They want their girlfriend to be the hottest one....but  will look for a decent girl to marry.

  • As, Women's are daddy's's are also mumma's boy .... and they will always compare your cooking with their mom.

  • They  lie and want you to believe them. And when you come to know the truth ..they would come up with strangest reason on earth to support their lies.

  • They wants to give you surprises on occasions, but most of the time unfortunately one day later .

  • They are very good at pretending that they are listening what you are saying even if they are not.

  • They lose patience easily if you are playing guessing games with them. They want to know everything specific. 

  • Don't talk about Men's memory... they can even forget where you met for the first time..or what was your first conversation.

  • Don't ask them questions why? when? where? they won't describe it ... they will just tell you the conclusion..and you are free to make the full story of your own. ( in case your mind is still thinking about why? when? & where?)

  • Men need to receive trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement.

  • Men are motivated when they feel needed. 

  • The most frequent complain men have about women:  Women are always trying to change them.

  • Men are more logical, analytical, rational.

  • A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results, through success and accomplishment. Achieve goals and prove his competence and feel good about himself.

  • Men will be most romantic in the starting phase of relationship.. during that phase they can write number of sms's ...but later typing 2-3 sms becomes very difficult for them. But, don't say this to them ... coz they will never agree to this or else they will give you hundreds of reason why they don't get time for sms.

Relationships between men and women are not impossible or necessarily difficult. Problems simply arise when we expect or assume the opposite sex should think, feel or act the way we do. It’s not that men and women live in completely different realities. Rather, our lack of knowledge and mutual experience gives rise to our difficulties.

We must avoid trying to change others to suit our needs. The following illustrates some differences between men and women. These differences are not absolute. They describe how men and women are in most situations most of the time.

Some Copied Details From Other Links :-

A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
Women love cats.
Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats.
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and funerals and for dating.
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

I just hope you all will like it.. It was just a try .... i know there are so many things to add.. please leave your comment if you wanna add something more ..!!!

Also, please leave your comments to let me know how you found it..

Have a wonderful life ahead...Tc ..!!!